lln’s blog

Well, I’m a girl, so I’m going to talk about something I love: guy-girl relationships. Being in love is one of the most beautiful experiences in the world. What is the best way to pursue these relationships?

I am personally a huge fan of courtship. What better way is there than to your friends and family to get to share in watching your relationship unfold? Rather than dating, where only the two of you get to share in the relationship, many people do. Though I don’t believe it’s right for the guy and girl to never be alone (walks hand-in-hand down the road, conversations on the swing in the yard, ROMANTIC!), cause I think that if they’re never alone, that could result in problems when they finally do get alone. I do, though, think it’s really cool for the majority of the time to be spent with the family and doing stuff with groups. This leaves less opportunity to experience things that should be left for engagement and marriage.

Another thing I most definitely believe in about guy-girl relationships is to leave kisses for at the earliest, engagement, and sex for marriage. What could be better gifts than to give your fiance your first kiss, and then as your spouse, your virginity? It’s the way God meant for it to be. He didn’t mean for us to go around wasting special gifts that he’s given us on people we don’t want to marry. These precious gifts were meant to be shared between two people, and those two people alone.

Guy-girl relationships are so amazing. The last thing I want to point out is, when we are in a relationship, we are supposed to love each other as Christ loved us. That’s the way we were created. We are supposed to be enamored with each other’s beauty, respect each other, and love each other, and each other alone.